There are many things that go into being a lady. These are just a few:

1. femininity – the characteristic of being female

2. cleanliness – having good personal hygiene and maintaining a clean living environment

3. politeness – ladies should not curse, get into fights, or spit

4. great posture – stand and sit up straight while relaxing at the same time with the legs together while wearing a dress or skirt.  

5. dress appropriately – do not wear clothes that are sloppy, dirty, wrinkled, or too revealing at certain occasions

6.  The ability to face realities with confidence and boldness while simultaneously being charming.

7. Honesty – one of the greatest attributes bestowed upon mankind that should be used with tact and pride.

8. Project oneself with spirit and vitality.

These all seem like great virtues to have. If one were to have these virtues most of the time she could be a lady, which is a magnificent sight to see. Practice makes perfect.